I tried to help some of it though. Since my bangs are the focal part of my hair, I want to make sure it looks right! I bleached them to lift the dark parts and then I toned it with a light ash brown hair dye.
The result was satisfying, and my hair looks more in harmony! You can't really tell in the first picture because of the filter I used but the second picture is a more accurate shot!
I also decided to give up on trying to change my eye makeup. You know what they say, less is more!